Modern, mainstream, official and mandatory ideas about sex and sexuality are so dishonest, inverted, and extreme in their evil - that it is very tempting to wish to re-assert, and seek to impose, traditional sexual relationships.
But this cannot happen, and indeed should not be attempted.
The results would be overwhelmingly negative, in terms of what God wants from us here-and-now.
Reversion to traditional roles cannot happen (without net-harm) because men and women are now - at this stage and phase in the development of our consciousness - meant-to-be (and are) much more unique as beings, than was taken account of in the 'intellectual soul' (i.e. traditional-classical-medieval) ways of thinking.
Our modern souls (in the 'consciousness soul' phase) rebel against being crammed into simple-and-few categories that are never quite right - because being crammed-into a few fixed roles thwarts that seeking after divinely-loving co-creativity which is our destiny.
Therefore, traditional roles could now only be imposed (artificially, top-down) by a system of overwhelming coercion; which would have other and strongly-negative side effects.
Of course, the devil has (via his favourite instrument of socio-political totalitarian globalist leftism) taken this fact, and twisted it by the sexual revolution, into the opposed-to-Good evils of modern sex/uality we see all around us. That is true and terrible.
But the double-negative strategy of opposing the oppositional is not a path to Good.
Traditional attitudes and roles cannot now be re-imposed except coercively - and in ways that would be net-harmful.
Men and women can no longer operate in a positive creative way within the roles prescribed by traditional categories, nor by any modification of such categories.
There is no formula, checklist or blueprint for what men and women ought to do in their relationships. All beautiful, good and true relationships between men and women are each essentially unique.
(You may have noticed that among all the Good marriages that you know - and I mean marriages that you know genuinely and spiritually, and by personal experience over time, and have judged as good - each such marriage is essentially unique.)
In rejecting the utterly-fake, inverted and manipulated hedonic 'individualism' of the World Establishment manipulators - we should instead seek the genuine spiritual individualism of Romantic Christianity.
The categories of 'man' or 'woman' are, indeed, eternal metaphysical realities, and the original basis of divine creation.
But each real and valid actual relationship of a man and a woman is nonetheless between unique beings; and needs to be approached as such.