I was re-reading the Introduction I wrote for the second edition of William Arkle's A Geography of Consciousness (2019).
In this writing I am explaining Arkle's spiritual philosophy, to the best of my ability - and Arkle has been a significant influence on my own understanding over the past fifteen or so years.
Despite these large debts; to avoid reader-confusion (!) I should point out that my own understanding differs from that of Arkle in several significant ways.
Nonetheless, it was helpful to revisit one of the main things that I learned from Arkle, which was that "The Family" is the best metaphor for divine creation...
Indeed, Family is not just a metaphor, but describes the deep reality of what God aspires to in the work of Creating.
Because ultimate reality consist of living Beings, and creation "works" by means of loving relationships between Beings; therefore an ideal Family-type relationship between Beings (an extended ideal Family, as it were - related by the commitment of marriage as well as by heredity, on the assumption that such commitments can be mutually-eternal in Heaven) may be recognized as the aim of divine creation.
Since writing the Arkle essay in 2019; I have more recently reached an understanding of Jesus as having made possible a Second Creation which is resurrected eternal life in Heaven.
And this can be understood as the possibility of Beings opting-in to join a fully-loving, therefore actually ideal, Family of Heaven.
I mean that the relationship between the Beings of Heaven can helpfully be conceptualized as that of an ideal Family; and part of this is that all members have actively and consciously chosen to join this Family...
Chosen also to be remade (in resurrection) such that they will always be motivated by Love* for all other members of this Heavenly Family.
*(I will capitalize the word Love to emphasize that I am using it in the distinctive sense described below.)
One point of talking in this way, is to try and enable us to grasp that Love is not only an emotion, but can be regarded as structural.
...Almost as we might thing of an attractive "force", but Love is always personal, always the attribute of a living Being, always voluntary, necessarily mutual and between individual Beings.
It is Love by which creation began and by-which creation coheres, and it is Love that (combined with our innate and unique selves) provides the energetic-dynamism for further and open-ended creating.
So, although Heaven is ideal, and although I talk of an ideal Family - those ideals must not be regarded as a static state of perfection.
The ideal Family life is not a stasis, not even a blissful stasis - it is instead always developing.
In this mortal world, we do not Love always nor fully; therefore in this-life dynamism is infected by selfishness, manipulation, and evil.
But an ideally loving Family would always cohere, because the mutuality of Love would spontaneously ensure that everything which happened in Heaven came from Love and was aimed-at Love.
Everything that everybody wanted to do would arise and operate in the context of Loving relationships.
And the Heavenly Family will, because its mutual Love is everlasting; therefore both eternally cohere and eternally develop.
I find it quite easy to imagine this in an ideal Family. I can imagine that such a Family would always stick-together from Love; and also that Family members would each always be pursuing personal projects of many kinds. Things would always be changing, and the loving commitments would always remain strong. Members would only desire to pursue loving projects; and not (as in this-life) often merely-selfish or coldly-manipulative projects!
Many people imagine Heaven in such a way that it is boring, or even demeaning. But when The Family is a concept which includes all Beings - and when Beings are understood to be of many kinds (e.g. human, animal, vegetable, "mineral" etc) and each Being as unique - then Heaven represents an ideal situation for an everlastingly creative, hence interesting, living.
Yet, no matter how appealing is this vision of Heaven for me; I must acknowledge it does not appeal to everybody - some people don't want that kind of thing - they want something else.
Some even loathe Heaven to the extent that they want to discredit Heaven, and to persuade as many Beings as possible to reject Heaven.
This is why following Jesus has never been for everybody, not when Jesus was alive as a mortal nor after his resurrection, and not since.
"Christianity" probably never will be for everybody; but only for those who want... what Jesus offers. And that may be a minority, even a small minority.
However, we should not reject the offer of Heaven until we know what it means.
And Arkle's work provided me with vital clues to how Heaven can be understood in a way that I find to be ideal.
And he does so by means of using The Family as his master explanatory metaphor.