I have often discussed God as a dyad - conceptualized as Father and Mother, or God and Goddess - which, for me, goes with my understanding of divine creation as the manifestation of love. In a nutshell, I regard creation as inextricably an aspect of love, and love as a dynamic relationship of beings.
For me, this is reality, it is a fact; but I cannot claim to have properly taken account of it in my thinking and living. Like most Christians I tend, habitually, to think of God as a Father and as unitary - despite that this does not make coherent sense to me! Such is the nature of mortal life!
But I currently feel impelled to try and "sort-out" my conceptual assumptions regarding The Goddess, triggered by the stimulus (if not example) of the role of Mary, Mother of Jesus, "Theotokos" - in the history of Christianity; and of her "veneration", the attention paid her - which has been (at times, in some places) the focus of actual Christian practice.
I do not find any of the conceptualizations of The Goddess to be correct; mainly because I begin as a pluralist and animist - regarding many living "beings" as the ultimate units of reality.
While almost-all philosophers have-been and are monists, believing reality is ultimately one; and usually believing that reality (including God, if believed-in) is ultimately impersonal, conceptual, abstract (often regarded as "static" and beyond "time"; conceptualized in terms of "properties" (or even negations) rather than an eternal, purposive, conscious, dynamic, living being.
There has been much talk of The Goddess or Goddesses in recent decades, but I find almost all of this discussion to be retrograde, ineffectual, in error.
1. Goddess talk is often linked to new forms and subjects of worship; whereas I don't believe that our God desires worship.
2. Goddess talk is often - and very obviously - derivative-of and serving a left-materialist socio-political agenda (which agenda is primary and the bottom-line belief - and is ultimately evil, because a tool of totalitarianism).
3. Because of the prevalent (nearly universal) monism; Goddess talk too often leads to an agenda of division - because people cannot even imagine how there came to be two, except by a division of some primal unity...
So, the idea of Goddess gets led-into a false activity of defining and distinguishing Divine Mother from Father, Goddess from God - which soon becomes prescriptive and this-worldly; rather than descriptive of primal reality.
Instead I am trying to understand the Goddess thus:
1. As reality, a fact, a fundamental assumption.
2. God as creator is the consequence of love between two beings, whom we call God and Goddess.
3. Unless there were both, there would not have been creation, unless the relation was love there would have been no creation - so love is the nature, origin, and "driving force" of creation.
What does this imply about our proper attitude to The Goddess?
Put simply; I think it includes this:
The Goddess is real, loves us each, is dyadic co-creator; and if we desire to affiliate with creation, then we do so by loving the Goddess and the God as divine parents of ourselves and of creation.
The Creator Goddess is a different being from the Creator God; as all beings are unique and distinct in their existence, and as all love is between unique beings. We get to know such differences by getting to know the "person".
As with mortal life, knowing-about is qualitatively different-from and inferior-to actually knowing a person.
That is one task: getting to know the Goddess - know directly, and for ourselves.