William Wildblood wrestles with this question at Albion Awakening - and makes some constructive suggestions.
My own angle is that the whole human being is only to be found in the ideality of permanent, indeed eternal, marriage between a man and a woman; in a complementary dyad: each couple being an unique perfection of growth in love.
That perfection needs to be recognised as the ideal, even though (very) seldom (or never) fully attainable in mortal life.
It is our divine destiny as Men - but, of course, must ultimately be embraced only in the full freedom of choice, and with knowledge; hence at an advanced stage of post-mortal life.
